No more scattered memory
Birthdays, anniversaries, and personal moments are often split across apps, old chats, and half-remembered dates.
MoCa is your private relationship reminder assistant. It finds meaningful dates from WhatsApp and Instagram history locally, helps you review them, and turns them into timely reminders.
Review the date, keep the moment, and start from a thoughtful draft based on how you usually write.
You wished people on the day that mattered. MoCa turns those old messages into a calmer way to remember, review, and show up again.
Birthdays, anniversaries, and personal moments are often split across apps, old chats, and half-remembered dates.
This is not another task manager. It is a private calendar for the people and moments you actually care about.
MoCa suggests dates from your history, then lets you confirm, fix, merge, or remove each person before exporting.
The first version focuses on a simple promise: find the dates, help you clean them up, and make remembering effortless.
MoCa scans messages you sent and uses the timestamp of birthday or anniversary wishes as the likely date.
Upload your Instagram message export and merge memories from DMs into the same relationship calendar.
Confirm real moments, fix dates, merge duplicate names, and remove false positives before anything reaches your calendar.
Download recurring yearly reminders as an .ics file for Apple Calendar, Google Calendar, or your calendar app of choice.
Use stored message tone as a starting point so your wishes feel more personal than a generic reminder.
Set reminders for today or the evening before, so the right moment does not sneak up on you.
Run MoCa on your Mac and choose WhatsApp Desktop, an iPhone backup, or Instagram export files.
It finds messages you sent, such as birthday and anniversary wishes, and reads the message date.
Keep real people, fix uncertain dates, merge aliases, and delete anything that does not belong.
Download a yearly recurring calendar file and add day-before alerts to your calendar.
Use timely reminders and wish drafts to send something that feels intentional.
MoCa is designed around local processing and user control because the source material is personal. The landing page will keep that promise visible everywhere it asks for trust.
Join the waitlist to get first access, behind-the-scenes updates, and a direct line to influence what this relationship assistant becomes.
The page already reserves realistic space for product proof. Add files to the asset folder later and update the placeholders with real media.
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It looks for birthday or anniversary wishes you sent and uses the message timestamp as the likely date. You review everything before keeping it.
The current app direction is local-first. Message scanning runs on your device, and your curated list stays under your control.
The current product supports WhatsApp Desktop or iPhone backup data and Instagram message exports. Early access feedback will help decide what comes next.
No silent sending. MoCa helps you remember and draft thoughtful wishes while keeping you in control of what gets sent.
You will be on the early access list for tester invites, progress updates, and feedback opportunities as the product gets closer to launch.
Tester invites will open in batches. The exact timeline can be updated here once the launch window is confirmed.
Join early access and help shape a private reminder assistant for birthdays, anniversaries, and the moments that make relationships feel cared for.
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